Pro-Life Champion Father Frank Pavone Celebrates 30 Years as a Catholic Priest

Opinion   |   Leslie Palma   |   Nov 12, 2018   |   7:03PM   |   Washington, DC

In this 30 years as a Catholic priest, Father Frank Pavone has become well known for passionate preaching, a spirit of ecumenism, unflagging advocacy for the unborn and a tendency to become a thorn in the side of those who would prefer a softer message. All of these traits were nurtured during his 12 years in formation as a priest.

At the first Mass he celebrated the day after ordination, when it’s customary for new priests to invite a more seasoned colleague to preach the homily, Father Frank chose to do it himself, spending 32 minutes preaching about the second coming of Christ and the urgency of proclaiming his Gospel. As part of the application of that Gospel, he railed against some religious sisters who had recently come out in favor of abortion.

“It was a sign of things to come,” he said.

In 1975, Father Frank was a junior at a public high school in his home town of Port Chester, N.Y.,  when he attended a Saturday evening Mass on the Feast of Corpus Christi in his parish, of the same name.

Until that point, “Sunday Mass was the extent of my involvement,” in his faith but something happened that evening as he watched an altar server bring the monstrance to a side table.

“It struck me what a privilege it was for the altar boy to be handling the monstrance,” even before it held a consecrated host. And when the Blessed Sacrament was exposed, he remembers feeling “a strong sense of the Lord’s presence, as if he was calling me into the monstrance with Him.”

The next day he spoke to the pastor about becoming an altar server and that led him to “rediscover the Eucharist.” He began praying, reading the Bible and attending daily Mass. One of the elderly women who shared the pews with him every morning asked him if he was considering the priesthood.

“I said no, but then I thought to myself, maybe I should,” he recalled. The idea grew on him. He had already begun applying to colleges but decided to apply to seminary instead. A college directory led him to one 90 minutes from home, in Newton, N.J. When he told his pastor, Father Peter Rinaldi about it, he learned that Father Rinaldi’s religious order, the Salesians of Don Bosco, ran the seminary.

He entered in the fall of 1976 and graduated, as Brother Frank, in June 1981, giving the valedictory address at the commencement ceremony.

By then he began to wonder if he might prefer to become a diocesan priest, so he decided to take a break to discern his future. It was on a date with a young woman he met after seminary that he discovered that he was not called to be married.

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“We were walking on the boardwalk at Playland (an amusement park), and I noticed a couple with a child in a stroller. I realized that this couple had to be fully invested in one another and that child. I didn’t feel called to that. I felt instead a worldwide call to love and serve all people.”

He applied to St. Joseph’s Seminary, which ordains priests, primarily, for the Archdiocese of New York. In the summer of 1984, when he entered, Cardinal John J. O’Connor had just been named to the archdiocese following the death of  Cardinal Terence Cooke. Cardinal O’Connor was among an extraordinary group of people Father Frank now describes as “a stellar lineup of formators” — Father Benedict Groeschel, Father Andrew Apostoli, and Monsignors William B. Smith, James O’Connor and Michael Wren.

Ordained a deacon in May 1988, he was assigned to St. Ursula’s Church in Mount Vernon, N.Y., to serve a sort of ecclesiastical internship. The young deacon’s duties included baptizing babies, visiting the sick, and helping with adult catechesis and marriage preparation. He found that he particularly loved preaching, but soon after delivering a sermon on the Church’s teachings against birth control, he learned that “some people were getting upset at my preaching.”

The pastor received a letter about the young deacon, but it only served to amp up his message:

“I started preaching even more strongly.”

Before ordination, it was customary for each seminarian to meet with the seminary rector, then Monsignor Edwin O’Brien, to learn if they had been accepted for the priesthood. But the pastor in Mount Vernon had shown the letter of complaint to the rector, so that became the topic of Father Frank’s meeting.

“The monsignor told me the preaching was upsetting some people,” he said. “While expressing my willingness to learn from constructive criticism, I also made it clear to the pastor and to the rector that my understanding was that I was being ordained to preach the Catholic Faith, and that this was exactly what I intended to do. If the cardinal wanted to ordain me, at least he knew what he was getting.”

Cardinal O’Connor was one of the most outspoken advocates for the unborn and the young deacon had heard the cardinal preach many times about pro-life, and had the chance to converse with him at monthly meetings at the cardinal’s residence with the other seminarians and on the cardinal’s visits to the seminary. On those visits, the cardinal said he was receiving favorable reports about Father Frank.

So while his ordination was assured, there was a foreshadowing of what Father Frank described demurely as some of his “controversial homilies,” fueled by the pro-life passion that was born less than a year after  that experience with the monstrance in 1975. He attended the March for Life in Washington, D.C., with his mother and grandmother in January 1976.

“That sparked my interest in the pro-life movement,” he said. “The call to the priesthood and the call to the pro-life movement were intertwined right from the start.”

After that meeting with Monsignor O’Brien, Father Frank went into the seminary chapel, knelt before the tabernacle and said to the Lord, “Now I know you want me to be a priest. Your Church has confirmed, externally, what I have felt internally.” Since then, he said, “I’ve never had a moment’s doubt about my priestly vocation in all these 30 years.”

At his ordination at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in Manhattan on Nov. 12, 1988, Father Frank recalled being “filled with peace and joy.” His parents, Joseph and Marion Pavone, were chosen to bring the gifts to the altar. Father Benedict Groeschel, a Franciscan just beginning his own order, the Community of the Friars of the Renewal, was the priest Father Frank chose to place his priestly vestments on him for the first time during the ceremony.

When Cardinal O’Connor drew the seven newly ordained priests around him on the altar to give the final blessing, he reminded the young men “to be kind to the people. He repeated it three times.” That stuck with Father Frank for all these years.

The next day was his first Mass in his home parish in Port Chester, where the 32-minute sermon was heard not only by his family, friends and the parishioners, but also by a number of Protestant clergy whose churches Father Frank began visiting during his seminary years. He would joint them for worship after attending Sunday Mass.

“I wanted to see how other Christians were worshipping,” he said.

It’s often said that Father Frank preaches like a Baptist minister and it could be that those skills got a boost one Good Friday evening during seminary when a Baptist pastor offered to let him preach from her pulpit. Naturally, he took her up on the offer. That was the start of a lifetime of interdenominational bridge building as well.

Father Frank had only been to Staten Island, New York City’s smallest borough, once before in his life but his mom had a premonition that he would be sent to serve a parish there. She was right. He was assigned to St. Charles, a parish that was located just a few blocks away from where Priests for Life would later have its headquarters for 17 years.

“I was happy,” he said. “I was ready to go.  As Staten Island came into view from the Goethals Bridge on my first drive there as a priest, I raised my hand in blessing, praying for all the families and individuals I’d be privileged to serve in this community.”

Being a priest taught Father Frank many insights that he has passed along to younger priests. One such lesson is that the biggest temptation is to take the sacred for granted. “We’re given the power to perform miracles,” Father Frank said.  “We can never let that become mundane.”

Just less than five years after ordination, and again with the blessing of Cardinal O’Connor, Father Frank took over a fledgling organization known as Priests for Life. His ministry now took on the shape he had foreseen when, during his seminary years, he had on the wall of his room a map of the world with a quote from John Wesley, “All the world is my parish.”