In a new paper released today by the Marriage and Religion Research Institute at the Family research Council, Dr. Patrick Fagan demonstrates how adoption improves children’s lives significantly.
It examines the relationships among family, marriage, religion, community, and America’s social problems, as illustrated in the social science data.
“Adoption is an act of love that has profound implications for the lives and well-being of both children and parents,” says Fagan. “It is love expressed by a birth-mother who gives-up a child for whom she cannot provide to parents who want to give love to a child for whom they long desperately.”
“We have quantified how adoption benefits children in a variety of ways, which quantifies what most of us know intuitively: adoption changes lives for the good. We are issuing the paper at the end of National Adoption Month, but there is never a time when drawing attention to adoption is not a good idea,” Fagan added.
Fagan noted that many adopted children move to materially advantaged homes with no or few children, where they are nurtured by supportive, focused parents. Very early adoptions (those that take place within the first year of the child’s life) produce the best outcomes, he explained.
He also points to polls showing 90 percent of adopting Americans view the practice in a positive light, and a decade after adopting and less than 15 percent express regrets over their adoption decision.
Adoption Works Well identifies certain factors as contributors to a successful adoption, such as flexible, yet consistent and engaged parenting Other factors include sensitivity on the part of the adoptive mother and residing in a densely populated area.
Additionally, married parents adjust better than unmarried parents, and households with more adopted children–but a smaller overall number of children–are more likely to produce a positive, stable adoption.
Adopted children see mental health providers less than children from any other family structure (except for intact families), Fagan notes about the benefits for children. Adopted boys have higher reading scores than the general population, and one study showed only 7% of children adopted in infancy repeat a grade, compared to 12% of children in intact families.
Fagan concludes: “Adoption is a remarkable act by generous people, who offer their financial resources, attention, affection and time to give young children a better chance in life. Though not without difficulty for some, compared to what life was offered them initially, adoption makes an enormous positive difference. For the overwhelming number of those who adopt and are adopted, it works very well.”
Despite the positive benefits of adoption, Planned Parenthood still engages in significant more abortions than it does processing adoptions.